5 Things To Know Before Planning A Funeral
After the death of a loved one, it can be difficult to continue as usual, and if the responsibility of planning a funeral falls on you, it can be even more challenging. In the following article, I will discuss five key things to know that can help you plan a funeral in the UK. Carry on reading to find out more.
Understand Legal Requirements
Even before you start making any funeral arrangements, a variety of legal steps need to be completed first. You must register the death at your local register office within a specific time period (usually five days in England, Wales, and Northern Ireland and eight days in Scotland).
For this procedure, you will need a medical certificate explaining the cause of death. Additionally, if a coroner is involved (such as in unexpected deaths), they may need to complete a post-mortem or hold an inquest (which can further delay funeral plans). This knowledge is vital and can help you set realistic timeframes.
Explore Different Funeral Options
There are many different types of funerals to consider, including religious ceremonies, non-religious services, woodland burials, and even direct cremations without a service.
The departed may also have indicated a preference for a funeral plan, which allows someone to arrange and pay for their funeral in advance. Often, elderly relatives may put this in place to ease financial pressure on their family (it can be beneficial to find out in advance).
Budgeting And Financial Support
Funerals within the UK can regularly run into thousands of pounds. Therefore, it’s worth comparing prices from different funeral directors (while also asking for clear answers to what is included in the quote). Check to see if your loved one had funeral insurance, a pre-paid plan or any savings that were specifically set aside to cover funeral costs.
If you are struggling to cover the costs, it is worth checking to see if you qualify for help via the Funeral Expenses Payment or if you can arrange a Public Health Funeral.
Personalising The Service
Many people view funerals as a place to celebrate a person’s life while also offering a space to mourn their death. Modern-day funerals typically have an option for specific music, readings, or poems, which can be presented by loved ones.
Furthermore, you can also bring photo displays or keepsakes that showcase a small but poignant element of their life at the funeral, allowing attendees to say a proper goodbye. You can even display their favourite flowers and create customised service booklets, which can offer an extra touch of personality.
Consider Practical Support
Arranging the funeral service can be a highly stressful responsibility. However, you will also need to consider transport arrangements for guests and even a potential wake where everyone can meet afterwards.
When friends (or extended family) handle the practical matters on the day, the close family can focus on saying goodbye. Even if you find yourself ‘feeling ok’ before the funeral, emotions will naturally be running high on the day itself (if possible, lean on your support network so everything will run smoothly).
Summary
A funeral is a difficult time for everyone, especially if you have been tasked with organising. Hopefully, the tips in my latest article will help you manage the different aspects of this highly emotional day.
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